Gay sex first time tips
My(35M) first gay sexual experience is coming up. What should I know?
February 5, 2020 11:10 PM Subscribe
Hello. I am a 35 year old cis guy, and I've been only with women up to now. I've always considered myself enthusiastically hetero.
A year or so ago, I first experienced the pleasure of anal sex (i.e. having my butt being played with, penetrated with a finger etc) with my female partners.
Since then, I have been fantasising strongly about being penetrated by a real penis. I've begun experiencing some attraction towards men, and (for the first time) been aroused by gay porn. I really want to be fucked by a guy!
So long story brief, I've met a kind, gentle same-sex attracted man who knows about this history of mine and is interested in being my spouse in this adventure. The big afternoon is coming up soon. I'm really excited but really nervous! I recognize I should attempt to be spontaneous but I include so many questions! What are things I should be ke
Are you planning on being a bottom for the first time but worried about being getting fucked? From douching to diet, these 11 butt-bangin' tips from Alex Hopkins will show you how to prepare for anal sex. Lube at the ready!
Anal sex is a rite of alley for gay men. But getting your precious passage primed if you're a first-time bottom can be anxiety-inducing. Not least of all because many of us are still not taught about anal sex in school.
Consequently, we often own to learn about how to have anal sex and bottoming in roundabout ways. Through what we hear. Or porn. And, many times, on the job itself.
First time bottom: the rookie mistakes
Impassioned but ill-prepared, when it comes to first-time bottoming, newbies naturally make mistakes. If we are feeling mega horny, we may try and take a cock too quickly. With too little lube. And perhaps too minute attention to cleaning our nether regions.
Indeed, bottoming for the first time can be messy. And painful (who doesn’t recall that hideous, jabbing pain?) Sadly, these factors can lay us off one of the most exquisite joys of gay life. But needlessly so. For these missteps are easily avoided by preparing for a
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Here are some speedy tips and tricks from ACON’s Peer Education team that will get you topping those bottoms appreciate a pro in no time.
1. Foreplay before play
When topping for the first time it can be intimidating so we suggest building a lot of trust with your significant other by exploring each other’s bodies through foreplay before starting insertive sex.
2. Chat the talk
Communication is incredibly important when you are topping, particularly if it’s for the first age. Get comfortable checking in with your partner and asking them how they liked to be fucked. (do they need foreplay? Do they need to be fingered?) Equally, if you know there is something that your match does that makes you rock hard then demand for it!
While you are talking about what gets you and your partner’s engines going, why don’t you include what sort of HIV prevention methods you want to be using? Slip in that you are using PrEP or an undetectable viral load – or maybe that you are looking to use condoms. Whatever it is you select to use,
Tips for cis men who wish to try sex with other cis men – in a safe and respectful way
To begin, I’d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s essential to understand that you can try new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and name as men too.Cis is the opposite of trans. We converse trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and advice about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
1. Be honest from the get-go that you’re curious
Whether you want to hook up with someone you’re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you’ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr, honesty is fundamental from the beginning. Many queer people are empathetic